Lam the nao de dua nang len dinh

Chủ nhật, 31 Tháng ba 2013, 08:00 GMT+7

Lam the nao de dua nang Phu nu thuong vao cuoc cham va ho cung cham dat duoc cuc khoai hon dan ong. Co gang tao ra cac “chieu thuc” khac nhau khi an ai de cac cap vo chong cung nhau "len dinh".

Tai sao lai phai keo dai cuoc tinh?

Ly do don gian la phu nu thuong vao cuoc cham va ho cung cham dat duoc cuc khoai hon dan ong. Vi vay de lam cho ho dat den nguong, dan ong can kheo leo va tinh te.

“Kheo leo va tinh te”

Do la dan ong phai biet rut ngan qua trinh hung phan cua phu nu. Day la giai doan chuan bi tam trang rat quan trong. Cu the la giup phu nu thoat khoi nhung cam giac cang thang, ap luc trong gia dinh, nhat la nhung ap luc tam ly va tinh than, vi du chong di ve muon, chong cau gat, say xin…

Cach tot nhat de giai toa ap luc tam ly cho phu nu la dan ong thua nhan co gang cua ho, dong vien, thau hieu ho. Dung tiet kiem loi khen ngay ca trong nhung chuyen nho nhat nhu mon an, mui thom, bo quan ao va mai toc, phu nu co gang lam dep khong phai de tu ngam.

Can phai hieu trong moi ung xu, du la chinh khach hay doanh nhan, thi ung xu voi phu nu van la kho nhat, nhung vi ho trong tam tay chung ta nen lai thuong khien ta chu quan nhat. Dan ong Viet Nam thuong it khen ma hay che, tam ly nay co nguon goc que mua, hoang so, gian don cua cuoc song nho hep. Hay che bai la dieu te hai nhat, khong chi doi voi phu nu ma voi moi cong viec khac. Moi loi chung ta che bai ve vo minh, nghia la mot buoc chung ta day vo den gan ong hang xom.

Tro lai chuyen tinh cung vay, moi loi khen, moi cu chi au yem deu gop phan rut ngan thoi gian de phu nu dat duoc cam xuc manh me, va tat yeu cung tiet kiem rat nhieu suc luc, tham chi uy tin cua dan ong. Gan hon la nhung cu chi au yem, tac dong truc tiep den cac co quan nhay cam, ve nguyen tac khong chua mot vi tri “then chot” nao va cang nhieu cang tot, cho den khi phu nu khong the chiu dung cam giac duoc vuot ve hon nua, ho muon nhap cuoc cang nhanh cang tot va nhu vay la ban da thanh cong 50%.

"Len dinh" cung nhau

Nhap cuoc cung la mot qua trinh phuc tap, tuy thuoc vao thoi quen cua tung nguoi, qua trinh nhap cuoc co the dien ra tu tu nhanh dan len hoac don dap ngay tu dau. Luc nay cung doi hoi su tinh tao cua dan ong. De kiem soat duoc cam xuc cua minh tot nhat la nhap cuoc tu ton, phoi hop nhip nhang cac dong tac ben trong va au yem ben ngoai voi nhip dieu nhanh dan cho den khi ban cam nhan duoc nhung dau hieu tot dinh o phu nu.

Tuy nhien tren thuc te, van de khong phai luc nao cung thuan voi y ban, boi vi viec kiem soat cam xuc cua dan ong vao luc nay tro nen rat kho khan, va khong kheo ban lai that bai. Mot so phu nu lai khong thich nhap cuoc tu tu, ho chu dong day nhanh nhip do va nhu vay cang lam cho ban kho kiem soat minh hon va xac suat that bai cung cao hon.

Vi vay, viec ap dung cac bien phap nin tho, phan tan tap trung cam xuc nhu da noi trong bai truoc vao luc nay la rat quan trong, phai luon luon nghi rang chung ta can tiet kiem suc luc cho nhung lan nhap cuoc khac, de phong lan nhap cuoc dau tien phu nu van chua hoan toan thich. Va dieu nay xay ra nhu com bua.

Cac phuong phap giup kiem soat cam xuc

De ho tro cho viec kiem soat cam xuc cua moi nguoi, ngoai viec tap khi cong, ban co the ap dung them cac bien phap ho tro, mot trong nhung bien phap chu yeu la lam mat kha nang tap trung cam xuc tam thoi bang cach dung ngon tay an vao day tai cua minh o phia tiep xuc voi phu nu. Lam nhu vay than kinh ban se bi chi phoi vao cho an do, dong thoi dong tac do se bit lo tai lai lam cho ban khong con nghe ro tieng "thon thuc" cua phu nu von tao ra hung phan nhanh hon cho dan ong.

Lam the nao de dua nang
Phu nu thuong vao cuoc cham va ho cung cham dat duoc cuc khoai hon dan ong.

Ngoai ra, vao thoi diem cang thang, kho kiem che, ban co the thay doi tu the khac… Viec thay doi tu the cung lam ban giam hung phan va chi sau mot hai lan doi tu the, cam xuc cua ban se on dinh hon, de kiem soat hon, cho den khi ban thay co the ket thuc duoc thi tro ve tu the truyen thong de ket thuc, vi hau het phu nu cung de dat duoc "dinh" o tu the nay.

Phu nu co vai tro the nao trong viec nay?

Nhung nguoi phu nu thu dong co the khong anh huong den dan ong tre, nhung co the lam giam hung phan o dan ong da co tuoi. Vi vay ngay ca o giai doan dao dau, phu nu cung can co thai do huong ung, tham chi au yem vuot ve dan ong.

De cho cu chi au yem khong gay tac dong nguoc, co the cua hai nguoi phai that sach se thom tho, dac biet la o phu nu. Mui vi cua phu nu la cam xuc khien dan ong nho rat lau nen de ban tinh luon hung phan voi minh can giu mot co the thom tho, sach se.

Ngoai ra, de keo dai cuoc tinh, dan ong can phan tan cam xuc, thi trai lai de nhanh chong dat duoc cao diem phu nu phai rat tap trung, khong suy nghi linh tinh va cung huong ung moi dong thai cua dan ong. Mot so phu nu thich duoc nhap cuoc don dap cung phai chu y kiem che, neu don dap qua, dan ong khong the kiem soat duoc cam xuc va rat de “hong viec”.

Vi vay duy tri nhip do, duy tri cam xuc la dieu rat quan trong, can phai ren luyen thanh thoi quen. Nhung phu nu co kha nang tap trung cao, biet duy tri cam xuc co the dat duoc cao diem trong moi tu the va do la nhung nguoi tinh ly tuong cua dan ong, tat nhien con phu thuoc vao tinh cam, tam trang nhung cung can phai ren luyen. Muon vay phai gac bo moi mac cam, that thoai mai hien dang va huong thu, phai tro ve ban nang goc dang yeu cua hai chu “dan ba”.

Moi cai deu phai ket thuc, cuoc tinh cung vay, phu nu thuong co du am keo dai hon nhieu so voi dan ong, ho van thich duoc au yem nhe nhang de gam nham cam giac hanh phuc, cho den khi buon ngu. Trai lai dan ong khi ket thuc cung la luc cam thay moi met, buon ngu, hoac khong muon gan nguoi tinh them nua, nhieu phu nu danh gia rat thap cu chi nay cua dan ong. Vi vay dan ong cung can co gang au yem ho them mot chut, noi them vai loi yeu, tham chi lay cho ho mot coc nuoc truoc khi roi vao dia dang.

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