Nhung cau hoi lam thay doi cuoc doi

Thứ tư, 21 Tháng mười hai 2005, 22:54 GMT+7


Hay tu hoi minh 6 cau hoi duoi day va ban se song hanh phuc hon. Ban khong tin u? Vay thi cung dang de ban thu tu van day. Nao, bat dau nhe!

1. Toi co thuc su yeu anh ay?

Day la cau hoi hoc bua doi voi hau het phu nu vi no lam chung ta nghi ve dieu chung ta muon, chu khong phai dieu nguoi ban doi muon. Da so se tra loi “co” va kem theo chu “nhung...”. Nhung gi theo sau chu “nhung” moi la van de.

Co, nhung anh ay uong ruou nhieu qua. Co, nhung toi muon anh ay dung liec nhin phu nu khac. Hay suy nghi xem anh ay co la “nguoi dan ong dich thuc cua minh” hay khong. Neu khong, hay tu hoi dieu gi lam ban hanh phuc hon va hay lap ke hoach quan trong cho minh truoc khi qua muon!

2. Toi thuc su muon lam gi neu moi nguoi thu nhap nhu toi?

Viec dua tien bac ra khoi "phuong trinh" se giup ban tap trung vao nhung gi ban thuc su thich lam. Khi nghi ve cong viec mo uoc, hay tu hoi dieu gi thu hut ban. Co the do la gio giac linh dong hoac chiu trach nhiem ve ke hoach rieng. Tuy nhien, dung ao tuong hoac mo mong hao huyen, hay bat tay lam viec de... vuot qua chinh minh.

3. Toi co thuc su doi?

Neu chi an khi thay doi thi khong lo tang can. Nhung neu dung do an de thoa man cam giac (chan nan, co don, buon mieng...) thi nen tu hoi: “Toi co thuc su doi?”. Neu “co” thi doi toi muc nao? Chua con cao thi dung an. Lam vai lan nhu vay voi cac do an khac nhau, co the se cho ban biet nen an gi. Hay luon tu hoi de tranh tang can. Tat nhien, tranh beo phi la tranh benh. Song khoe se song hanh phuc.

4. Toi co thuc su can giau hon?

Nguoi ta nghi den viec trung so de “doi doi” hoac chi it cung la cai thien cuoc song ve mat tai chinh. Nhung ban khong can mot tai san lon de co cuoc song nhu mong muon. Moi thang de danh vai tram ngan thi sau vai nam ban se co vai chuc trieu. Ban co the dat ra muc dich de phan dau. Ve co ban, dung nghi suong ma hay hanh dong. Quan ly tien bac cung nhu kiem soat the trong cua ban vay, hay co dat muc dich, dung “ban do nhi phe”.

5. Ban be them gi vao doi toi?

Neu cau tra loi la nhung dieu tot thi ban co mot nen tang vung chac. Nhung neu cau tra loi la nhung dieu “gay nhuc dau” thi ban nen xem lai nhung nguoi ban do. Co ban tot thi cung co ban xau, dung la phai “chon ban ma choi”. “Nguoi ban tam giao la nguoi dam lam trai y ta ca tram lan de mang lai loi ich cho ta” (L.Albert).

6. Cha me toi van biet ro?

Ban cam thay muon doi cho lam hoac di voi ai do, nhung me ban cho rang ban sai lam. Ban khong biet nen lam gi. Y cua cha me co the dung, co the sai, nhung ban nen can nhac kinh nghiem cua nhung nguoi di truoc. “Bay muoi phai hoc bay mot” kia ma. Su khon ngoan cua nguoi lon rat dang hoc hoi. Truoc khi bo qua y kien cua cha me, ban hay tu hoi y tuong do den tu dau va co chung co gi dang tin cay hay khong.

Tram Thien Thu



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